People often say that you need to look at yourself when your marriage fails. After much reflection, I have not been able to find anything that would warrant the way my exes have behaved toward me and my family members.
The first ex killed our son. Slept around with more than a few people when I was in the Army, and possibly even before that. Moved in with some guy when I was in training in the Army, and abandoned our daughters and her son. Later, she took her son away from me (I was trying to adopt him.) so he could live with various relatives for the rest of his childhood. (She only took him to live with her, several years later, following a bout with cervical cancer...(one of the side effects of having more than one sex partner.)) Much later, she contacted our daughters and tricked them into moving in with her, and burning bridges with me...as well as stabbing me in the back. She hates Americans (She's Mien), and prefers to live in Europe...without a passport, somehow she is able to travel to Europe for the holidays. (Her passport is on hold pending her paying me the back-childsupport she still owes me--nearly $18,000 not counting interest.)
The second ex hated my family. She hates her own culture but often holds it above American culture as being far superior. (She's Hmong). She claims to be a good Christian, yet she hates so many people. She manipulates people and does whatever she can to get money from people. She has convinced our younger children to stop contacting me, and calling me Daddy. She denies that she has done all of those things. On Mother's Day, 2004...the last Mother's Day we were together, I had to call the police on her for trying to abuse my older children. She was arrested, and later released since it was the first Domestic Violence call that we had. Her first ex-husband had 100% custody of their kids. They feel alienated by her. After they were all adults, she went to see them and her one grandchild. She didn't even pick her grandchild up and talk to her. She was rude to her son-in-law. They contacted me and told me they still count me as one of their family even though their mother and I are not married anymore. They never contacted her again...after that visit. She is both hateful and manipulative. Her predecessor is a manipulative drama queen. Both of them think very highly of themselves, and have no respect for anyone in authority. I think the first ex should be investigated by Homeland Security and the FBI...maybe even the CIA (because she goes to the Netherlands whenever she wants without a passport.) She always has money, but never any to pay me what she owes for 10 years of back-child support. The second one loves to play "dumb foreigner" when she thinks it will benefit her.
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